The five-step approach is good when you're in a particular situation that's got you mad and you need to decide what action to take. But other things can help you manage anger too. Try these things even if you're not mad right now to help prevent angry feelings from building up inside. Sometimes anger is a sign that more is going on.
People who have frequent trouble with anger, who get in fights or arguments, who get punished, who have life situations that give them reason to often be angry may need special help to get a problem with anger under control. Tell your parents, a teacher, a counselor, or another adult you trust if any of these things have been happening:. These could be signs of depression or something else — and you shouldn't have to handle that alone.
Anger is a strong emotion. It can feel overwhelming at times. Learning how to deal with strong emotions — without losing control — is part of becoming more mature. It takes a little effort, a little practice, and a little patience, but you can get there if you want to. Larger text size Large text size Regular text size. When Tempers Flare Do you lose your temper and wonder why? Getting Ready to Make a Change Deciding to get control of your anger — rather than letting it control you — means taking a good hard look at the ways you've been reacting when you get mad.
Here's what to do: 1 Identify the problem self-awareness. For example, in this situation you might think: a I could yell at Mom and throw a fit. For example: a Yelling at your mom may get you in worse trouble or even grounded. Once you choose your solution, then it's time to act. Lots of research has shown that exercise is a great way to improve your mood and decrease negative feelings. Listen to music with your headphones on. Music has also been shown to change a person's mood pretty quickly.
And if you dance, then you're exercising and it's a two-for-one. Write down your thoughts and emotions. You can write things in lots of ways; for example, in a journal or as your own poetry or song lyrics.
After you've written it down, you can keep it or throw it away — it doesn't matter. The important thing is, writing down your thoughts and feelings can improve how you feel. When you notice, label, and release feelings as they show up in smaller portions, they don't have a chance to build up inside. Scribbling, doodling, or sketching your thoughts or feelings might help too. Meditate or practice deep breathing.
This one works best if you do it regularly, as it's more of an overall stress management technique that can help you use self-control when you're mad. If you do this regularly, you'll find that anger is less likely to build up. Talk about your feelings with someone you trust. Lots of times there are other emotions, such as fear or sadness, beneath anger.
Talking about them can help. Distract yourself. If you find yourself stewing about something and just can't seem to let go, it can help to do something that will get your mind past what's bugging you — watch TV, read, or go to the movies.
These ideas can be helpful for two reasons: They help you cool down when you feel like your anger might explode. When you need to cool down, do one or more of the activities in the list above. Think of these as alternatives to taking an action you'll regret, such as yelling at someone.
Some of them, like writing down feelings, can help you release tension and begin the thinking process at the same time. They help you manage anger in general. What if there's no immediate problem to solve — you simply need to shift into a better mood?
Sometimes when you're angry, you just need to stop dwelling on how mad you are. The results concluded that children who spent more than two hours per day in front of a screen had greater psychological difficulties, irrespective of physical activity.
For successful treatment, the clinician will have to rule out if excessive use of electronics is causing such symptoms. If excessive screen time is shown to occur alongside a true mental disorder, restricting electronics may be part of the solution to helping your child feel better. What mental health effects of too much screen time have you seen in your child? Share your thoughts in the comments below. Get support from Linden Oaks Behavioral Health.
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